Can Generative AI Chatbots Emulate Human Connection? A Relationship Science Perspective

The development of generative AI capable of sustaining complex conversations has created a burgeoning market for companion chatbots promising social and emotional connection. The appeal of these products raises questions about whether chatbots can fulfill the functions of close relationships. Proponents argue that relationships with chatbots can be as meaningful as relationships between humans, whereas critics argue they are a dangerous distraction from genuine connections. This analysis applies theoretical tools from over 50 years of research on close relationships to evaluate the extent to which human-chatbot interactions meet the definition of and fulfill the functions of close relationships. Interactions between humans and chatbots possess some characteristic features of close relationships: humans and chatbots can influence each other, and engage in frequent and diverse conversations over time. Chatbots can be responsive in ways humans perceive as supportive, generating feelings of connection and opportunities for growth. Yet because chatbots make only superficial requests of their users, relationships with them cannot provide the benefits of negotiating with and sacrificing for a partner, and may reinforce undesirable behaviors. Research that attends to characteristics of users, chatbots, and their interactions will be crucial for identifying for whom these relationships will be beneficial or harmful.