“There’s two people going through this”: Exploring the Impact of Cancer on Male Intimate Partners and Spouses

Purpose Intimate partners and spouses of individuals with cancer often face unique challenges. However, the individual experiences of male intimate partners and spouses remain underexplored. As intimate relationships are among the most significant adult bonds, this study aimed to explore the perspectives of male intimate partners and spouses of individuals diagnosed with cancer in the past ten years. Methods 9 participants were recruited using purposive sampling. A qualitative design was utilised, with semi-structured interviews conducted both in-person and online. Interviews were audio-recorded, transcribed and analysed using thematic analysis. Results The first author identified six themes, relating to the impact of cancer on relationships, support dynamics, and coping: challenges during and beyond the diagnosis, complexities of communication for men, diverse support system experiences, experiences of the medical system, meaning making through advocacy and volunteering, and reshaping relationship dynamics. Conclusions The findings highlight the profound emotional, social, and relational impact of cancer on male intimate spouses, with many assuming new responsibilities. Challenges in emotional communication and expression underscored the need for more tailored interventions and better signposted supports. Also, highlighting the need for healthcare services and cancer organisations to effectively integrate spouses into the cancer care process, ensuring accessible and gender-sensitive support. Implications for Cancer Survivors: Tailored psychological support for male partners and spouses of cancer patients will ensure they can provide optimal support to their loved one. Thus, this support may positively impact the cancer patient's trajectory as adequate support from their partner or spouse will enhance their quality of life.